- Do you secretly worry that others will find out that you're not as bright and capable as they think you are?
- Do you sometimes shy away from challenges because of nagging self-doubt?
- Do you tend to chalk your accomplishments up to being a "fluke," “no big deal” or the fact that people just "like" you?
- Do you hate making a mistake, being less than fully prepared or not doing things perfectly?
- Do you tend to feel crushed by even constructive criticism, seeing it as evidence of your "ineptness?"
- When you do succeed, do you think, "Phew, I fooled 'em this time but I may not be so lucky next time."
- Do you believe that other people (students, colleagues, competitors) are smarter and more capable than you are?
- Do you live in fear of being found out, discovered, unmasked?
Well, I can answer yes to nearly all of them. All but one. Does it matter which one? (Hint: I am not crushed by criticism.) Point is, the lady says if you can say yes to any ...
Then you need this product. I probably do. But it is marketed with an online marketing brochure using emotional marketing language
"You can free yourself to find greater personal and professional fulfillment than you’ve ever experienced!"and that pretty well kills it for me. It's nice however to have another "syndrome" to blame myself on.
2 comments:
1 (others find out) yes
2 (nagging self doubt) yes
3 (fluke) not so much
4 (hate mistakes) yes!
5 (crushed) nah
6 (success=fooling) not especially
7 (others smarter) oh god yes
8 (fear of discovery) mmmkinda
yuh-oh!
Um. Is there actually a product in all of that verbiage, btw? Is it the Groucho Glasses?
Advertisers have employed psychologists for yonks to lure people in the way you describe. Most people, one supposes, learn to tune it out as extraneous noise.
On the other hand, re people generally, I'm shocked by the several people I know who have been taken in by scams.
So, for some, these things work. A sucker born every minute, apparently.
Gekko, give yourself a cigar to go with the glasses! ;)
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